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June 2022

Strategies for Success Newsletter June 2022 Issue 198

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Published by Emily Huling Selling Strategies
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Copyright 2022 Emily Huling. All rights reserved.

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In this June 2022 issue:

  1. Thoughts from the Road
  2. Thoughts from Others
  3. Josmo’s Cafe
  4. Stay Energized

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  1. Thoughts from the Road

Sticky situations

When visiting beautiful Arizona in April, our friends Alexandra and Steve introduced me to a new taste treat – Savannah Bee raw honeycomb. They served this delicacy on a beautiful charcuterie board that also had meats, cheeses, crackers, fruit jam and nuts. I spread a rice cracker with raw honeycomb and topped it with creamy Brie. I took a bite. I was in epicurean love!

I raved about the honeycomb so much, Alex suggested I take the rest of it back to our rental to enjoy. Yes, thank you, I will!

As I savored the raw honeycomb every day during our stay, I discovered one drawback. It is so sticky! Sticky container, sticky hands, sticky counter. Everything in contact with that delicious honeycomb got sticky. I had a decision to make. Was the stickiness worth it?

Moral of the story. What sticky situations do you find yourself in that you need to decide whether to give up or stick it out? If the benefit outweighs the drawback, it’s best to stick with it. I did. In fact, I bought more raw honeycomb when I got home!

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  1. Thoughts from Others

Small Kindnesses

By Danusha Laméris

I’ve been thinking about the way, when you walk
down a crowded aisle, people pull in their legs
to let you by. Or how strangers still say “bless you”
when someone sneezes, a leftover
from the Bubonic plague. “Don’t die,” we are saying.
And sometimes, when you spill lemons
from your grocery bag, someone else will help you
pick them up. Mostly, we don’t want to harm each other.
We want to be handed our cup of coffee hot,
and to say thank you to the person handing it. To smile
at them and for them to smile back. For the waitress
to call us honey when she sets down the bowl of clam chowder,
and for the driver in the red pick-up truck to let us pass.
We have so little of each other, now. So far
from tribe and fire. Only these brief moments of exchange.
What if they are the true dwelling of the holy, these
fleeting temples we make together when we say, “Here,
have my seat,” “Go ahead — you first,” “I like your hat.”

Danusha Laméris is poet laureate of Santa Cruz County, Calif. Her latest book of poetry, Bonfire Opera, was published in March 2020 by the University of Pittsburgh Press.

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  1. Josmo’s Café

What better way to please a backyard barbeque crowd than having a super great dessert? Bundt cakes are easy to make and serve many people. My cousin Kathy, a great cook and baker, made us a yummy and super sweet Heath Bar Bundt Cake. LINK Another one of my favorite cakes is the previously featured Key Lime Bundt Cake. John and I wish you a summer of delicious treats and happy gatherings!

Please see dozens of our recipes on the Josmo’s Café page on the website.

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  1. Stay Energized

Our Energizer Minute for June is Discomfort before improvement.

I can always count on my good friend John DiBiasi to know the most offbeat stuff. We were talking about the crazy housing bubble during the past two years and that the bubble has recently burst in my area. John asked if I knew the history of what we refer to as a bubble. I did not. Sure enough, John relayed information about the first recorded socio-economic bubble called tulip mania when asset prices deviated from inherent values. It occurred during the Dutch Golden age in the 17th century when tulip bulbs sold for more than 10 times the annual income of a skilled artisan.

Read more about tulip mania and you can impress your friends with newfound knowledge!

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May 2022

Strategies for Success Newsletter May 2022 Issue 197

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In this May 2022 issue:

  1. Have you read…?
  2. Thoughts from Home
  3. Thoughts from Others
  4. Josmo’s Cafe
  5. Stay Energized

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  1. Have you read…?

Soundview Executive Book Summaries continue to provide me quick insight into current business trends. The book I Love It Here – How Great Leaders Create Organizations Their People Never Want to Leave by Clint Pulver, a leading authority on employee retention, hit many high points that I know to be true to attract and retain top talent.

  • Managers – are you the problem or the solution? Employees need to feel valued, understand and share your company’s vision, and know that what they do matters.
  • Promote people from within the organization.
  • Hire for attitude, behavior, and character. Refer to my 17 Terrific Tips to Hire the Right Person for a detailed list of effective hiring practices and valuable resources.
  • Let your employees focus on what they do best. Give them responsibilities where they will excel.
  • As a leader, observe, evaluate, and make adjustments frequently for each employee.
  • Examine current employment policies, compensation, and benefits compared to what others in your area or industry are offering. Keep up or you will lose out.

Here are two more thoughts I have on this subject. If an employee is determined to leave, wish them well. If a valued employee has made a mistake in leaving and wants to return, interview them as if they were a new candidate. Uncover the issues that resulted in their leaving. If those issues can be resolved, great. If not, it wasn’t meant to work out.

PS. Here’s an additional resource to top-grade your hiring practices. The Omnia Group is my longtime insurance industry partner for pre-employment assessments and talent development strategy. I love this article by Omnia senior analyst Alaina Sims on how to create a job ad to attract the right candidates. 2 Ways Benchmarking Takes Your Job Ad From 2D to High Def Omnia’s client success team will help you create a job ad for only $29.00 per ad. Please contact Senior Customer Success Manager Cynthia Brooks CBrooks@OmniaGroup.com for assistance. Cynthia’s direct number is 813.280.3021.

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  1. Thoughts from Home

The secret to building strong relationships

My life is joyfully filled by spending time with children under the age of five and seniors over the age of 85. While I don’t spend a lot of clock time with any of them, the time I do spend is unhurried. From both ends of the age spectrum, I’ve learned the secret to building strong interpersonal relationships.

Give people your undivided attention.

Some reminders on how to do that. Face the person when you are speaking. Maintain eye contact when conversing. Pay attention to what the person is saying and respond to what’s been said. Don’t change the subject. Avoid distractions and don’t multi-task. Don’t take that call. When necessary, repeat what you’ve heard.

It’s better to spend brief quality time with people than to have lengthy, distracted, and impatient visits.

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  1. Thoughts from Others

“Emily, life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and be loved is the greatest happiness of existence. Thanks so much for all you do for our company and for me. I love your Energizer Minutes.”

11 years ago, I found this note from my client’s accounting person tucked in the envelope with my check. Sadly, Tammy passed away a few years later at the age of 51. Tammy was a ray of sunshine to all who knew her. I think about her words of wisdom often. Friendship and love – that’s what life is all about.

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  1. Josmo’s Café

Our friends Rosemarie and Lee visited us for lunch at Josmo’s Café and a light-hearted afternoon playing Dominos Mexican Train while enjoying Pandora’s Jim Croce station. Two recipes to share from our delightful visit. For lunch, I made the always good Chicken and Broccoli Braid. For a Sunday treat, Rosemarie shared with us her homemade Baked Pumpkin Oatmeal Cups, a delicious muffin recipe from Sally’s Baking Addiction.

Please see dozens of our recipes on the Josmo’s Café page on the website.

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  1. Stay Energized

Our Energizer Minute for May is Lighten up.

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April 2022

Strategies for Success Newsletter April 2022 Issue 196

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Published by Emily Huling Selling Strategies
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Copyright 2022 Emily Huling. All rights reserved.

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In this April 2022 issue:

  1. Thoughts from the Office
  2. Thoughts from Road
  3. Josmo’s Cafe
  4. Stay Energized

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  1. Thoughts from the Office

Overcoming mediocrity

Do you get up in the morning, look in the mirror and say, “Today, I’m going to be mediocre?” I bet not.

Yet mediocrity is a funny thing. It sneaks up on you. A person can start out gung-ho about their work then BAM – an idea is shot down, there haven’t been raises in 3 years, a project doesn’t go as planned, a client is ungrateful, and coworkers are increasingly annoying. Disengagement sets in.

Here’s what I know from my consulting and coaching work. The exact same situations that manifest in mediocrity are the same situations that will drive others to be leaders.

Leadership is not about having a title or a big position. Front-line leaders are even more important to organizational success than those calling the shots.

Here are four ways to avoid mediocrity and help drive success.

Be a catalyst for positive and profitable change. When you’ve identified a stumbling block and have an idea to overcome it, be proactive. Here’s my recommended framework to state the case with the higher powers. 1. What is the issue? 2. Who is affected? 3. What’s it costing the company in time, money, loss of revenues, reputation, etc. 4. Describe your recommended solution. 5. List the benefits of the solution to all parties affected. 6. Offer to be part of the solution.

Build consensus. It’s tempting to join the crowd with complaints about changes in work environment, procedure, or position duties. It’s better for you and your employer if you help others understand the reason for the change. Voice support to coworkers for everyone to move forward together.

Train and develop others. What experience do you have that can help others do their jobs more productively and proficiently? Step up to share your knowledge and expertise.

Be a role model. We all observe others’ appearance, communication with others, work habits, office friendships, breakroom etiquette, meeting participation, etc. That means each of us is under the spotlight. When you think no one is watching, they are. Our reputations are made through simple day-to-day activities and interactions. Every day, be the best you can be.

I am inspired by the energy, optimism, and actions of the front-line leaders I work with who help drive both business and personal success. If you feel mediocrity settling in, know you can change that.

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  1. Thoughts from the Road

Pressing through

I knew that look the moment I saw it.

As a frequent flyer with early boarding privileges, I had already settled into my aisle seat. I usually ignore the 100-200 people boarding after me, but for some reason I looked up. I saw a young woman frantically looking at her boarding pass and then at the seat numbers posted overhead. First time flyer I guessed. I caught her eye. “Can I help you find your seat?” I asked. “Yes,” she replied with a sigh of relief. Her seat was directly in front of me, so I helped her get herself and her bag situated. Another sigh. “Thank you so much.”

When the plane landed in Minneapolis, we exited and walked side-by-side to the nearest restroom. “Do you have a connection?” I asked. “Yes” she said, eyes wide as she looked around at the huge terminal. I told her I had loads of time and could help her find her gate. On the long walk, we chatted.

Savannah told me it was her first time flying. I smiled. She was 22 and a new dialysis technician on her way to a training class. I praised her for such a good career choice. She said the hardest part isn’t the schooling, it’s all the other stuff that scares her. Like flying. She then said with quiet determination “I’ve decided I’m not going to let things that scare me stop me from living a great life.”

Moral of the story. Consider what you are losing out on by allowing anxiety and fear (Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real) get in the way. Press through to gain new experiences and broaden your world.

Originally published December 2016

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  1. Josmo’s Café

Spring is in the air! John and I are making the shift from warm comfort foods to lighter fare. Our favorite salad recipe is worth featuring again. Our friend Richard’s recipe for California Salad has yummy ingredients and a sweet homemade dressing. It’s so good it’s tempting to simply drink it from the jar! Speaking of homemade dressing, we’ve started making our own Honey Mustard Dressing using my cousin Beth’s recipe. It’s fabulous!

We have over 100 recipes on our Josmo’s Café page on the website.

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  1. Stay Energized

Our Energizer Minute for April is The in between.

Are computers male or female? If you need a two-minute laugh, this is it!

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March 2022

Strategies for Success Newsletter March 2022 Issue 195

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Published by Emily Huling Selling Strategies
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Copyright 2022 Emily Huling. All rights reserved.

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In this March 2022 issue:

  1. Thoughts from the Office
  2. Thoughts from Others
  3. Josmo’s Cafe
  4. Stay Energized

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  1. Thoughts from the Office

Avoid these top 10 sales mistakes

Over the years, I have made them all. I hope my list of what to avoid in sales and client relations will help others.

  1. Thinking a referral is an easy sale. Just because you are recommended does not assure a sale. Do your homework, build rapport, listen to their issues. Don’t take anything for granted. Remember to thank the referral source and keep them in the loop.
  2. Not building rapport with your client. You don’t have to make a friend, but you must find commonalities.
  3. Pitching your product and services. Instead, ask questions to learn what your buyer already knows, what they need and why they need it. That information is the basis to discuss what you have to offer.
  4. Talking too much. Silence is a selling strategy.
  5. Interrupting. Let your buyer talk. You can learn about your buyer’s decision-making process, challenges, and concerns.
  6. Solving a problem they don’t believe they have. Educate first and follow their cues.
  7. Being impatient to close the sale. People buy in their time, not yours. Until the time is right, stay visible by providing relevant information.
  8. Getting defensive. If you disagree, use the feel, felt, and found technique. “I understand how you feel. Others have felt the same way and have found…”
  9. Taking things personally. Whatever is said or done, it’s not personal. Get over it.
  10. Making assumptions. If you don’t get a call back, don’t assume a reason. I’ve often assumed the worst, only to find out there is a good reason the connection was lost.

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  1. Thoughts from Others

The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

 It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing.

It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn’t interest me what planets are squaring your moon…

I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow if you have been opened by life’s betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, ‘Yes.’

It doesn’t interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here.

I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn’t interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.

from The Invitation 1994

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  1. Josmo’s Café

It’s still comfort food season in the Josmo’s Café kitchen. Our Instant Pot Pot Roast is delicious and easy to make using dry onion soup mix. Our other favorite Instant Pot recipe is Instant Pot Beef Stew. If you have any stew left over, it freezes very well.

We have over 100 recipes on our Josmo’s Café page on the website.

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  1. Stay Energized

Our Energizer Minute for March is Seasons of life.

Like many of you, I’m hooked on the daily Wordle puzzle! No surprise The Holderness Family came up with a clever music parody A Whole New WORDLE.

For more puzzle fun, the Charlotte edition of Axios published a list of offbeat versions of this popular game. Here’s their list with links to each.

  • Absurdle: Guess and play as many times as you want.
  • Dordle: Solve two puzzles at the same time. Each has different answers.
  • Hello Wordl: Play as many times as you want for words between four and 11 letters.
  • Lewdle: The dirty words version.
  • Lordle of the Rings: Wordle for Lord of the Rings.
  • Nerdle: Come up with eight “letters” in six guesses, except your letters are numbers and +, =, -, /, *.
  • Primel: Wordle for prime numbers.
  • Sweardle: Wordle for swear words.

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February 2022

Strategies for Success Newsletter February 2022 Issue 194

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Published by Emily Huling Selling Strategies
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Copyright 2022 Emily Huling. All rights reserved.

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In this February 2022 issue:

1. Thoughts from the Office
2. Thoughts from Home
3. Josmo’s Cafe
4. Stay Energized

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1. Thoughts from the Office

Assess your client relationships

Many of you may have spent office time in January as I did cleaning, clearing out, and reorganizing. It was a cathartic experience. I donated a hundred or more business books that were instrumental in growing my business and creating client programs so others could benefit from the material. I threw away CIC outlines that were so old that I used overhead projector slides when teaching!

One area we often avoid in our annual upkeep is assessing our prospect and client relationships. Are our relationships delivering both the qualitative and quantitative outcomes we want? Here are some factors to assess your business relationships.

Transactional vs. relational. Is your client courteous but impersonal or friendly and personal? Do you sense there is a mutual interest in each other’s well-being?

Conflict. Opinions and approaches differ. Does your client work with you to resolve the issue or focused on winning?

Getting information. Does your client keep you informed and stay in touch or are you chasing the client for needed information?

How do you feel when working with your client? Do you feel that you can be yourself or are you on edge as if you’re being judged?

Does your client value your expertise? Does your client respect your professional advice or continually challenge you with what they read or hear from others?

Does your client respect your time? Is your client available at agreed upon times? Prepared for your meetings?

I believe that choosing the right clients who treat you as a partner is the key in achieving your business goals. Examine your client and prospect relationships. If any aren’t a good fit, act to resolve the issues. If that’s not possible, ending the connection may be necessary.

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2. Thoughts from Home

10 Things I Practice for a Good Life

I hope each of you has a list of the best advice you’ve received or your principles for leading a life of good intentions. I want to share the list I follow to lead a responsible and rewarding life.

1. You can’t always be happy, but you owe it to the world to be cheerful.
2. Do 25 sit-ups and 25 pushups every day.
3. Never burn a bridge.
4. Do things to gain experience both in business and your personal life.
5. Always take the high road.
6. Being proactive drives away anxiety.
7. Let people listen to themselves.
8. Respect other people’s time.
9. Always look your best.
10. When feeling cynical or rude, ask yourself, “What does it cost you to be nice?”

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3. Josmo’s Café

My slow cooker works overtime in the winter. Our new favorite recipe is Slow Cooker Balsamic Chicken. If you’re working at home while it’s cooking, you’ll be able to enjoy the heavenly fragrance. Please try our other favorite slow cooker recipe if you haven’t. Crock Pot Maple Dijon Drumsticks.

We have over 100 recipes on our Josmo’s Café page on the website.

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4. Stay Energized

Our Energizer Minute for February is There’s more than one way.

Looking for more ways to experience and demonstrate gratitude? I love this list of 42 Ways to Practice Gratitude Today and Every day.

I had several readers reach out to me after reading my January 2022 Thoughts from the Office about distracting language. One question was about tip #8. I was asked what to say to avoid ending a discussion with “Does that make sense?” I suggest any of these phrases: “Feedback?” “Questions?” “Comments?” or “What do you think?”

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January 2022

Strategies for Success Newsletter January 2022 Issue 193

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Published by Emily Huling Selling Strategies
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Copyright 2022 Emily Huling. All rights reserved.

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In this January 2022 issue:

  1. Thoughts from the Office
  2. Have you read..?
  3. Josmo’s Cafe
  4. Stay Energized

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  1. Thoughts from the Office

Stop using distracting language

I’m not referring to swearing or using other offensive words, although both should be eliminated from speech. I want to discuss language habits that disconnect the listener from hearing your message. While that’s bad enough, there can be long-term career and advancement damage by not being an effective and clear communicator. Here are eight unprofessional speech habits I frequently hear.

  1. Using fillers. Um, uh, you know, like… During my five years as an active member of Toastmasters, this habit was broken. Anytime a person used a filler, a bell was sounded!
  2. “To be honest…”  implies you haven’t been forthright.
  3. “No problem” instead of “You’re welcome.” “No problem” undermines your experience and efficiency. State a confident “You’re welcome.”
  4. Uptalk. This is the annoying habit of ending sentences like you are asking a question.  Here’s a great 40-second example.
  5. “In my opinion…”  This segue is not needed and deflects from the message. Boldly state your thoughts.
  6. Using pronouns instead of a person’s name. “She said…” or “He said…”  I often interrupt and ask who it is they are referring to.
  7. Ending a sentence with the word “Right?”  This end-of-sentence filler gets in the way of the message. I’m at a loss at knowing what to do when I hear “Right?” Is the speaker looking for agreement? Do they want me to say something? Best to eliminate using it.
  8. “Does that make sense?” and “Know what I mean?” Remove these phrases that suggest either the speaker isn’t sure or the listener isn’t smart enough to understand.

Personal development recommendation. Record yourself a few times when you are engaged in different kinds of conversations. One-on-one meeting, client phone conversation, talking with a friend or family member. Play it back to hear what speech habits should be corrected. Noticing is the first step. Work hard to make necessary changes.

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  1. Have you read…?

Greenlights

Matthew McConaughey’s autobiography Greenlights had been on multiple bestseller lists for a year. A year! Because my curiosity outweighed my skepticism, I put a hold on the e-book at my library. There was a twelve week wait! It was worth the wait.

It was his roles in Dallas Buyers Club and True Detective that turned me into a huge fan. I hadn’t expected his life story and his approach to life to be so interesting. One of the many surprises I had reading the book was how he transitioned from cool dude and rom-com actor to a serious Oscar-winning performer. McConaughey is a risk taker, philosopher, poet, excellent autobiographical writer, and still a cool dude.

One of my favorite pieces from the book is an early entry from McConaughey’s many journals. “We are not here to tolerate our differences, we are here to accept them. We are not here to celebrate our sameness, we are here to salute our distinctions. We are not born into equal circumstances, or with equal abilities, but we should have equal opportunity. As individuals, we unite in our values. Celebrate that.”

Here are video clips to enjoy. The actor’s breakout role as David Wooderson in Dazed and Confused and his famous chest-beating scene from The Wolf of Wall Street as well as the story of how it ended up in the movie.

I hope you’ll be as enlightened, inspired, and amused when you read Greenlights as I was.

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  1. Josmo’s Café

I love sheet pan dinners! Easy to prepare, hands-off cooking, and easy clean up. Sheet Pan Parmesan-Dijon Chicken Thigh Dinner was a featured recipe on allrecipes.com. The flavor is wonderful. Perfect for a cold January dinner.

Our other two favorite sheet pan chicken recipes previously posted on Josmo’s Café are Sheet Pan Vinegar Chicken and Lemon and Herb-Roasted Chicken Thighs.

We have over 100 recipes on our Josmo’s Café page on the website.

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  1. Stay Energized

Our Energizer Minute for January is 25 years of ABC’s.

Please help me salute…

Two of my long-time clients retired in December having made incalculable contributions to the insurance industry, mentored countless professionals, and contributed enormously to the communities they served. I hope you’ll raise your glass with me to recognize my friends Nathan Einstein and Marvin Freedman.

In 1958, Nathan Einstein joined his father-in-law William Rosenfeld in the insurance business in Greenville, SC, establishing Rosenfeld Einstein. In 2012 the firm merged with Marsh & McLennan Agency. Nathan, most recently chairman of Rosenfeld Einstein, has an unequalled work ethic and is committed to education and knowledge. I’ve not worked with another whose love of taking care of his clients is any greater.

Here’s a note I received from Nathan after he read my June 2020 newsletter piece about sales during the pandemic shutdown. “Your message is a real reminder that selling is an “art form.” To be really successful you have to work hard and smart! There are no gifts in our industry. Everything is earned because of skill level and presentation skills.” Nathan lived these words every day in his successful 63-year career.

Marvin Freedman, 91, is retiring after 70 years in the insurance business and five decades running the Anchor Agency. A sign in his office reads, “No one has endurance like the man who sells insurance.” He proved that right!

Marvin dropped out of law school when his father, who sold insurance, died at 53. He had to help his mother support the family. After selling insurance, he joined forces with two other agents and formed Anchor Insurance in 1960 in downtown Albany, NY. Marvin treated his employees like family. When he sold the business in 2016 to Pioneer Bank, the new owners understood that Marvin’s leadership, knowledge, and established client trust were invaluable to assure continuity and success.

Both men are leaving an invaluable legacy. Thank you Nathan and Marvin for mentoring and encouraging me as I’ve grown my business.

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